People come and go in our lives for so many reasons. We all meet for a reason and when that reason is fulfilled, those people leave our lives.
Years ago this concept was very hard for me to grasp. I always wonder why so-and-so wasn’t friends with me anymore. What happened?
First you have to think how and when these people entered your life. What did you guys do together? Talk about? Learn?
Then think about around the time the friendships started petering out. What was the big lesson your learned or discovered while with that friend? What is a life changing event? An acknowledgement that you needed to hear? A discovery about yourself?
Keep in mind that there are differences between friends and acquaintances. I truly believe that friends are made during the very beginning of your life. Sure there are people that are considered really good friends later on in life but they have a different feel or vibration.
Now going back to these lessons, when a friendship ends, think about why you are no longer friends. What “feels” different?
I know since I’ve become Awakened, my vibration, energy or frequency, has changed. It’s easier to associate with people who have the same “feeling” verses someone who doesn’t. Lower vibrational anything feels like walking in mud. You try to get where you need to be but you’re getting pulled down. And that’s not good.
So are you bummed because a friendship ends? Don’t be! You’ve learned something very important in your life from that person and you should be grateful and thank them.
This year I looked back at few of my relationships and see how they’ve changed or ended. I realized what lesson I’ve learned or how they changed my life and was so very grateful for that experience because without them, I would not be who I am today.
As far as the people who are still in my life now, they perhaps are learning from me. When they get to their ah-ah moment, that will change as well.
See how wonderful friends are? I love and thank all my friends from the past, present and future because without you, I cannot grow.
I love you!