Let’s talk about friends and unpleasant situations for a minute here. If you realize that you’re giving away something very precious every time you get angry, you’ll think twice before you turn red.
Everyone gets mad. Some of us get angry at the smallest things like loosing our keys in the morning, forgetting to put the car windows up and you just found out it rained last night to taking a sip of coffee to find out that the milk has gone sour. Are these life shattering events? No, not at all but they still get us pissed.
How about people? You’re going to work in the morning and you’re stuck behind someone going really slow, you are now late for work. Someone cut you off in the parking lot and you said a really bad word and they just looked at you and laughed. Are these life shattering events? No but they can get you REALLY mad and set your mood for the day.
How about the people at work? You know that Kathy is not doing her job and she’s just going around spreading gossip about you and everyone else in the office. Even that Boss who you know is not qualified to do his job but he’s getting paid way more that you and doing a lot less work to show for it. You see this day after day after day. Is this annoying? Heck yeah!
Finally, on a stronger note, our friends. You’re at a party with your favorite peeps and they find out that you’re a little “odd” because you have tons of jewelry on, you’re wearing purple and you’re talking about meditation and crystals. They don’t understand you anymore so what do they do? Retaliate. They use hurtful words and start a big old argument right in front of your face.
You are fuming!!
- How can they be so mean?
- I thought they were my friends?
- Why are they driving so slow?
- Why is he not doing his job?
- Why is she such a troublemaker at work?
- Why does everyone drive so bad?
- Why are people so inconsiderate?
- Why did she say that to me?
What’s happening here? We are allowing people and situations to take our energy away from us!
We give away a part of us that we can’t get back. We will never recoup that energy that we’ve worked so hard for. Gone.
We all have energy. We all ARE energy. When we let other people get us mad or react in a bad way – what are we doing? We are giving our energy away!!! We are letting them take OUR energy! NO! You can’t have that my friends.
I’ve worked very hard to get my vibration up and to feel the way I do Spiritually, emotionally and mentally. The scary thing is, it can be diminished in a heartbeat IF we let others take it away.
This. takes. a. very. long. time. to. realize. I know it’s easier said than done but once we refuse to let other people take our precious energy away, the happier we feel. We come out on top because we’ve taken control of the situation because face it, we can’t control or change everything right? So choose your battles. Take care of YOU. Be in charge of YOU.
This is extremely hard for me to do. I was born and raised in NY so I’m all about letting you know when I’m mad and in a NY second mind you. I’m also the type of person that will hold onto a grudge for a really long time. This is not healthy and it’s not good. So I’ve changed.
Since I’ve Awakened, and I’m going to make a video about that later today, my entire personality has changed for the better. I’m not going to go into all that but the last lesson I’ve learned so far, is to NOT give my energy away. I did it once before and it’s extremely draining. I don’t want to feel drained.
So what to do? Hold onto your energy!! This is VERY hard to do but if you can do it, you’ll not only feel better but you’ll feel good about YOU because you took control of the situation and still have your energy.
When that person take your parking space, think to yourself, “yes that would have been a great spot but there’s one down a bit and I get to get a little more exercise because of the extra walk.” That’s a good thing.
For that person who cut you off on the road – thank your Angels for keeping you safe and NOT getting into an accident – it may have been close but you didn’t! Be thankful.That is good.
For that lady at work who is gossiping and causing trouble in the office, feel sorry for her because she will not be getting a raise, more than likely will be getting fired and she’s probably very quite at home because she has an abusive husband so that is why she mouths off at work. Feel sorry for her and wish her a good day.
For all the people who you thought were your friends, more than likely, that’s not going to change. You are growing and changing your vibration, they are not. Just remember the good times you’ve had together and look forward to the amazing people you are about to meet. It’s so much nicer to hang with like-minded people and talk about crystals and chakras if you want to – find them, they are there.
So how do you feel after all this? You feel good because like a feather, you rose above all the bull crap that can bring you down. You are flying high, where you need to be. Hold on because you aren’t done yet. Just remember, in order to get where you need to be, you need your energy. Don’t give it away.