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Mornings With A Medium: WE Are The Time Keepers

Time is always in the present; it always was, it always will be.

time is always in the NOW, there is no past or future
Time is tricky but knowing how it works changes life.

Thank you for joining me for my occasional morning chats, “Mornings With A Medium.” Here, I hold this space for myself to chat and share what’s on my mind on topics that are deep and complicated, hopefully making you think about things a little differently.


Today, I am talking about time.


There is no past, present, or future, there is only the “now.” What we believe to be in the past instantly becomes the present when we think about it, because of memory recall. Once you think about something that already happened, it’s now part of our present moment.


Now the future is tricky and I haven’t quite figured that one out, but here again, when we think about something we want to do, or an event/milestone that is coming up, it’s no longer in the future but in the “now,” in the present moment. So, the future doesn’t exist the moment we think about it.


This all boils down to energy, and not just energy but an “entity” I’d like to refer to it as. Not like the boogeyman entity like in the movies but a presence or thing that has the ability to change and has the power to move our minds. That is powerful stuff and it’s not “just time” my friends, it’s an existence.


The twist is when it comes to death, time plays a huge role in this mysterious world.


When someone first passes away, the first week to a month they are around us, litterally 24/7. Most of you can’t sense it because feelings are blocked by grief. For me, I love, and this is very odd to say, the first week or so after someone passes because it’s my time to tie up loose ends, listen to messages they have to say that they didn’t have time to, and best of all, to know that they have never left nor will ever leave. Their time, always remains with us, especially when we need them.


My dad passed on Father’s Day 2023 and I can’t even put a number of the times he contacted me, chatted with me and even let me see his physical body when I needed him the most. This is a beautiful thing!


I use Scrabble tiles as Divination tool to connect with him, and you can read my posts on that throughout my blog.


Now here’s where it gets interesting.


Father’s Day 2024 was when I finally released and processed my grief. It was a big deal, a significant day, and this release came to me in such a beautiful, gentle way, through music. The cool part is, and I just realized it now, is that my dad was a musician, actually a conductor in a men’s choir in Brooklyn, NY, so of course his final message to me would be via music. I shouldn’t say “final” because it’s not final, but we are now able to be apart in our own worlds until we need each other again. Also, keep in mind, there is an adjustment period when people cross over, so he needed me as much as I needed him the first year he passed.


Just last week, I wanted to chat with him for whatever reason, just some silly nonsense chat, and the Scrabble tiles spelled out, “leaving now.” It was in that moment that we both processed our worlds enough to continue our lives.


I know that when I need my dad, he’s just a thought away. He continues to send me little snippets to let me know he’s still around, and I just smile and my heart warms.


I hope you enjoyed this article on time. If you have any questions, please leave a comment and I’ll be glad to answer it for you!


Here are other articles on my experiences with time you may enjoy.











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